With hearts full of love and gratitude, we celebrate the remarkable life of Barbara Sides, known affectionately as “Bobbie” to most. She touched countless lives with her kindness, generosity, infectious spirit, and subtle yet delightful sense of humor. Her unwavering devotion to her family and work family leaves an indelible mark- a legacy to be honored and cherished.
Bobbie’s connection to Newberry College was a cornerstone of her life. She fell in love with its character and charm, earning her secondary education there. Recognizing its potential, she dedicated 50 years to strengthening its foundation, ensuring its legacy would thrive for generations to come. In doing so, she unknowingly created a legacy of her own- a legacy built on love, service, and unwavering commitment to a place she held dear.
Bobbie was a loving and steadfast partner to her husband, Rev. Floyd Sides. She supported him with the same passion, faith, and dedication she poured into every aspect of her life. Together, they built a partnership rooted in faith, love, and shared purpose that continues to inspire.
As a mother, Bobbie set the standard for love and devotion. She balanced compassion with strength, always guiding her children and grandchildren with wisdom, patience, and selflessness. Her nurturing spirit shaped the people they are today, instilling values that will endure for generations.
Bobbie found joy in the simple pleasures of life. She loved reading, cooking, and exploring hobbies that allowed her to share creative tokens of herself with family, friends, and even strangers—who often became fast friends. She also had a gift for finding laughter in life’s challenges, bringing light to even the darkest moments.
On December 20, 2024, surrounded by love, Bobbie walked gracefully into the arms of her Lord. She was welcomed by those who preceded her, including her mother, Louise Honeycutt; her father, Bernard J. Holshouser; her grandmother, Sallie Mae Holshouser; her grandfather, Arch Holshouser, her stepmother, Naomi Holshouser; her father-in-law, George Henry Sides; and her mother-in-law, Esther Morgan Sides.
Bobbie’s legacy continues through those who loved her most. She is survived by her devoted husband, Rev. Floyd Sides; her daughter, Kim Havird (Benny); her son, Gene Sides (Carol); her sister, Lynne Flood; her brother, David Holshouser (Melanie); her grandson, Tyler Havird; her granddaughter, Kelsey Havird; her nephews, Matthew (Heath) and Timothy Flood (Catherine); her nieces, Emily Hill (Chris) and Laura Holshouser, grand-nephews, Connor Hill and Jack Flood; grand-niece Molly Parker Flood; a step-granddaughter, Devon Ruscito (Joe); and a step-grandson, Dylan Keim
A private service will be held for the family, honoring Bobbie’s wishes. A celebration of life will be scheduled at a later date, allowing all who knew and loved her to gather in remembrance and gratitude for the profound impact she made.
Bobbie’s life was a testament to faith, love, and service. Her legacy will continue to inspire and uplift, a reminder of the beauty she brought to this world and the joy she leaves in our hearts.
