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Making Beach Balls Fly: Embracing Kids in Worship, Intergenerational Ministry, and Why it is All Important
Featuring: The Rev. Heather Roth Johnson
April 12, 3-5pm
St. Andrews, Columbia
One of the greatest gifts God has given the church is people—of every age. Few places allow a three-year-old to sit beside a ninety-three-year-old and worship together, yet the church is one of them. While this intergenerational reality is a beautiful gift, it can also feel overwhelming when we’re unsure how to connect the generations meaningfully. Intentionally cultivating intergenerational ministry and embracing kids in worship can feel like juggling a bunch of beach balls! Join Pastor Heather Roth Johnson as she helps you learn how to make those beach balls fly and discover practical, life-giving ways to foster connection across generations in your ministry.
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OUR CORE VALUES
How We Believe God Would Have Us Accomplish the Mission And Vision
Leadership Development
- Form youth to be leaders.
- Plan and implement leadership training for youth.
Faith Formation
- Plan and implement events and programs intended to lead children, youth and their families closer to Christ and toward a life of discipleship.
Equip Adult Leaders
- Encourage and support youth leaders through events where leaders can share experiences, successes and resources.
Support
- Develop and maintain communication to inform youth and youth leaders about upcoming events, using email, social media, monthly newsletter.
- Provide publicity for events in a timely manner.
mission statement
What We Believe God Has Called Us To Do
We believe God has called us, in partnership with parents and adult leaders, to cultivate faith formation, leadership development, fellowship and service by, with, and for ELCA children and youth and communities.
Vision Statement
What We Hope God Will Do Through Us
Our vision is for all youth and children in SC to experience God’s love and grace.
Resolution on Child Protection
As adopted by the 2025 Synod Assembly
From the Desk of Deborah Poole
More Than Just Fun: Why Games Are Important in Children and Youth Ministry
If you’ve ever stepped into a youth room or a children’s church, you’ve likely heard the sound of laughter, sneakers squeaking on linoleum, and the energy of a game in full swing.
To an outside observer, it might look like a waste of time. Shouldn’t we be focusing strictly on teaching scripture and prayer?
Games are not a distraction from ministry—they are one of its most effective tools. When we meet children and youth in the world of play, we open doors to their hearts and minds that a traditional lecture simply cannot reach.
Games Break Down Walls (and Fast)
Walking into a church group can be incredibly intimidating. Games act as a universal icebreaker.
- A good game levels the playing field. Everyone is equally ridiculous trying to balance a cookie on their forehead.
- Laughter releases endorphins and reduces stress. When young people laugh together, their guards drop, making them far more receptive to the community and the message that follows.
They Create a Sense of Belonging
Youth, especially, are desperately searching for a place where they fit in.
“Play is the shortest distance between two people.” — Karl Rozman
When kids play team games, they are forced to communicate, strategize, and rely on one another. Sharing a victory or even a hilarious, messy defeat creates shared memories. These memories become the glue of a ministry’s culture. A student might forget the specific points of a sermon by Tuesday, but they will remember the feeling of belonging to a team that cheered them on.
Play Mirrors Real-Life Discipleship
We often think of games as “just for fun,” but they are opportunities for character development. Games naturally draw out real emotions and behaviors.
Games provide teachable moments for:
- Sportsmanship: Learning how to win with humility and lose with grace.
- Integrity: Choosing to follow the rules even when the leader isn’t looking.
- Empathy: Noticing a teammate who is struggling and offering them encouragement.
As leaders, observing kids during game time gives us a front-row seat to their hearts, showing us where they might need guidance, encouragement, or mentorship.
Games Anchor Truth in Active Learning
Kids and teenagers have an abundance of energy and, let’s be honest, shorter attention spans. Expecting them to sit still and listen for an hour is often a recipe for disconnection.
Active games engage different learning styles. When you tie a game directly to the theme of your message, the lesson sticks.
- Want to teach about carrying each other’s burdens? Play a blindfolded obstacle course where they have to guide one another.
- Teaching about trust? A classic trust-fall or reliance game makes the abstract concept more concrete.
Games show kids that church is a place of joy, that God delights in their happiness, and that they are loved and valued just as they are.
So, the next time you are planning your ministry schedule, don’t just “squeeze in” a game if you have time. Plan it, play it with passion, and watch how God uses fun to change lives.
Websites
Games & Icebreakers – TheSource4YM
Free Games – Deep Discipleship (Requires free sign-up)
50 No Prep Youth Group Games – Spiritually Hungry
10 Great Indoor Youth Group Games For Small Churches
50 Fun and Easy Youth Group Games for Indoors (No Prep Necessary)
20 Children’s Ministry Games That Are Fun (And Easy!)
MAKING BEACH BALLS FLY: EMBRACING KIDS IN WORSHIP, INTERGENERATIONAL MINISTRY, AND WHY IT IS IMPORTANT
Rev. Heather Roth Johnson
April 12, 3-5pm
St. Andrews Lutheran
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Show and Tell Best Practices
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HIGH SCHOOL RETREAT
May 15-17, 2026, at Coastal Retreat Center, Isle of Palms
Theme: Discipleship
Join us for a weekend of learning more about faith practices, fun, and friendship!
Cost is $120
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Youth Convo
Calling all high school youth to join us for a time of inspiration, skill-building, and community at the Synod Youth Convo. You may come as a delegate to Synod Assembly or on your own. We will participate in major parts of the Assembly.
June 11-13
Register as a Youth (even if you are not a delegate from your congregation).
You are responsible for hotel rooms and some meals
WEBINAR INVITATION – Traci Smith
A Practical Approach to Faith at Home
Join Traci on April 15 for a one-hour webinar on how to use the Faithful Families Method to create lasting change in families. She’ll be sharing practical ways to help faith take root at home and will also offer an opportunity for those who want to go deeper into this work.
YOUTH READ SACRED TEXTS WORLDWIDE!
MAY 07, 2026
This is an interfaith event that encourages young people across the globe to read their own faith’s sacred texts during the week of the U.S. National Day of Prayer.
In 2026, this falls on May 7, with reading taking place throughout that week.
This is a flexible, low-effort way to engage your students in meaningful sacred texts/Bible reading.
Youth can participate:
– During regular youth group meetings
– At home with their families
– As part of existing Sunday school or small group programming
You decide what sacred texts/scripture to read, how long to read, and what fits your community’s needs. Many participants simply incorporated the reading into activities they are already planning.
Visit YouthReadSacredTextsWorldwide.org to learn more and register your group and receive all the necessary materials!
ReFocus Roundtable
Passive Observers to Active Participants – All Ages Worshiping Together
Thursday, May 7 at 2 PM ET
This conversation will explore how we move beyond simply having all ages in the room to creating meaningful opportunities for engagement, contribution, and shared worship across generations.
RESOURCES
Podcasts
How Your Church Can Meet Families Where They Are
4 Things Young Families Need From Your Small Church
Ideas to Keep Energy of Easter Season Going
- Hide “Acts of Kindness” instead of candy.
- Channel that spring energy into helping a local shelter or food bank.
- Plan a colorful celebration for the 50th day to wrap up the season.
Faith-Centered Earth Day Ideas
Creation Care Scavenger Hunt
- Organize a nature walk around the church grounds or a nearby park.
- Give kids a checklist of God’s creations to find (flowers, birds, insects, trees).
- End with a short devotional on Genesis 1 and our role as stewards of the earth.
“Plant & Pray” Activity
- Provide small pots, soil, and seeds (flowers, herbs, or vegetables).
- As they plant, encourage kids to pray for the earth, farmers, and those without enough food.
- They can take the plants home as a reminder to care for creation.
Upcycled Art for God’s Glory
- Collect clean recyclables (bottles, cardboard, cans) and create art or useful items.
- Tie it to the message of God making beauty from what’s broken.
- Display the creations in the church lobby for Earth Day Sunday.
“Lights Out for the Lord” Challenge
- Encourage families to turn off electronics for an evening and spend time in prayer, reading Scripture, or playing board games.
- Discuss how reducing energy use honors God’s creation.
Creation-Themed Worship & Storytime
- Use songs, Bible stories (like Noah’s Ark or Psalm 104), and interactive storytelling to highlight God’s love for the earth.
- Have kids share one thing they can do to protect the planet.
YOUTH GROUP LESSONS ON EARTH DAY | Ministry to Youth
50 Fun and Impactful Earth Day Activities for Kids of All Ages
Earth Day Sunday in your Church – CREATION JUSTICE MINISTRIES
Organizational structure
newsletters
Resources& Links
ELCA Faith Formation
Growing Young Assessment
Living Our Baptism
Implementing the ELCA Faith Practices in your Ministry Setting
Resources
FACEBOOK GROUPS
- CYFM Resources – SC Synod
- SC Synod Children, Youth, and Family Ministry
- ELCA Youth Ministry Network
- Stuff You Can Use – non-denominational
- Deep Discipleship Youth Group Games
- UMC Intergenerational Ministries
- Big Ideas in Youth Ministry
- ELCA Children and Family Ministries
- Cultivate Faith with PRC
- Ministry Boost
- Birthing Cross+Gen Community
- Progressive Youth Ministry
CHILDREN’S MINISTRY RESOURCES
- ELCA Children’s Ministry
- Sparkhouse
- Spirit & Truth Publishing (Revised and Narrative Lectionary Curriculum)
- VeggieTales – God Made You Special and He Loves You Very Much
- Bible Made Easy for Kids | Christian Videos | Whats in the Bible
FAMILY
- Lifelong Faith – Home
- Vibrant Faith – Discover the Whole-Person Ministry Leadership Approach
- Family Faith Formation Toolkit | Family Faith Formation Toolkit | Christian Reformed Church
- Faith Practices at Home / Home Practices
- Book / Faithful Families by Traci Smith (Study Guide – faithfulfamilies4weekstudy)
- Book / Ordinary Blessings for Parents — Meta Herrick Carlson
- Parent Cue
CHILD PROTECTION
- Safe Gatherings / $$ (Synod has partnership with them)
- Home – Darkness to Light
- Safe Gatherings – Mandated Reporting
- Article / Creating a Child Protection Policy for Your Church – Rooted Ministry
- Template for creating policy / Sample-Child-Protection-Policy.pdf
- Model / DE-MDSynodModelChildProtectionPolicy.pdf
- Model / Child-Protection-Policy-SC-reviewed-02-16-2019.pdf
- Model / Child-Safety-Policy-Redacted.pdf
- Model / Child Protection Policy (CPP) – Faith Lutheran Church
- Model / Good Shepherd Lutheran Church – Alexandria, VA | Child Protection
- Church Protection Resources | EPC
- Guidelines-for-Child-Protection-Policy-FINAL-012820.pdf
- Child-Youth-Vulnerable Adult Policy 2020 (GA 2020) (00131876).DOCX
- SafeSanctuaries-Small-Churches-0517.pdf
CONFIRMATION MINISTRY
- Study the Story of the Bible With Free Tools | BibleProject™
- Colaborate: Lutheran Confirmation | Sparkhouse
- Here We Stand Confirmation
- Mentorship / Five keys for effective mentoring
- Re:form | Sparkhouse
YOUTH MINISTRY
- Curriculum / T.B.D. | Sparkhouse
- Conference / The Confluence |
- Team building through cooking Way Cool Cooking School | Cooking School in Eden Prairie, MN
- The Bible Project / Study the Story of the Bible With Free Tools | BibleProject™
- Curriculum / Echo the Story | Sparkhouse
- Youth Ministry | LeaderTreks Youth Ministry
- Environmental learning Growing Green Hearts
- Peer Ministry / Peer Ministry Leadership – Leadership Training
- Ultimate Camp Resource – Camp Games, Camp Songs, Camp Skits, and more!
- Youth Ministry Great Games – YouTube
- Faith Lens – Faith Lens » Blog Archive – Evangelical Lutheran Church in America
- Ministry to Youth – Youth Group Lessons – Free | Youth Bible Lessons – Free
- Youth ESource – Home – youthESource
- YM360 – YM360 | Youth Ministry 360
- Book / Sustainable Youth Ministry – Ministry Architects
- Youth Group Lessons and Games | Ministry to Youth
- YouthMinistry.com – Daily Wisdom for Youth Workers.
CAMPS, MISSION TRIPS & RETREATS
- Local – Columbia / GraceWorks
- NovusWay Ministries I Christian Camps & Retreats In Southeast U.S.
- Appalachia Service Project | Mission Trips in Appalachia
- Passport | Christian Summer Mission Camps For Youth Groups and Children
- Service Learning Camps
- HOME | Thedwelling
- Center for Student Missions / City Service Mission
- Lutheran Outdoor Ministries | Encouraging, Educating, Equipping, and Empowering Camp & Retreat Leadership
- Praying Pelicans Missions / Mission Trips – Domestic & International Group Mission Trips | PPM
- Serve Boldly – GREEN LAKE LUTHERAN MINISTRIES
- YouthWorks | Christ-Centered Youth Mission Trips
BACK TO SCHOOL BLESSINGS AND PRAYERS
- Back_to_School_Blessings_and_Prayers.pdf (buildfaith.org) and Blessing Backpacks: Prayer and Resources (buildfaith.org)
- 25 Promising Back To School Prayers For Students & Teachers – Home Faith Family
- Ministry Matters™ | Backpack Blessings
- Blessing of the Backpacks and Back-to-School Worship Liturgy (illustratedministry.com)
- Discipleship Ministries | A Blessing of the Backpacks and the School… (umcdiscipleship.org)
- Backpack Blessing! (saltproject.org)
- For devices / Blessing of the devices (resourceumc.org)
CHOOSING CURRICULUM
- Building Faith’s Top Picks for Youth Ministry Curriculum (buildfaith.org)
- Building Faith’s Top Picks for Children’s Ministry Curriculum (buildfaith.org)
GENERAL INFORMATION
- Building Faith
- Cherish All Children / For Churches | Lutheran Social Service of Minnesota
- Go Weekly / Orange Resources
- ELCAYMNET (Youth Ministry Network) / Martin’s List – Need a membership Members Login
- The Ministry Lab – Supporting vibrant, innovative ministry for our changing world
- ELCAYMNET (youth ministry network) – have to join
- Advocacy for the acceptance, full participation, and liberation of all sexual orientations, gender identities, and gender expressions within the Lutheran Church Home – Reconciling Works
- Fuller Youth Institute / Fuller Youth Institute
- Faith Formation / ELCA FAITH FORMATION – home
- The Innovation Lab / Innovation in Action
- Youth Ministry Consulting for Your Church – Ministry Architects / Synod has a partnership with them. Code is SCCYFM25
- Springtide Research Institute / Interesting information
CONTINUING EDUCATION
- E-Formation / Lifelong Learning | Virginia Theological Seminary
- ELCAYNET Extravaganza / Extravaganza 2026
- Faith Forward: Reimagine Children’s and Youth Ministry / Faith Forward
- Intergenerate Conference / InterGenerate
- Faith+Lead / Follow God into a Faithful Future: Faith+Lead
- Orange Conference / Orange Conference 2025 | The Family Ministry Event Of The Year | The Art Of We
- Vibrant Faith – Discover the Whole-Person Ministry Leadership Approach
- Lifelong Faith – Home
SUICIDE PREVENTION MONTH
- Hope: A Guide for Faith Leaders to Help Prevent Youth Suicide | National Action Alliance for Suicide Prevention (theactionalliance.org)
- Teaching resources for talking with teens about suicide | PBS NewsHour Classroom
- Children Ages 12 and Younger – Suicide Prevention Resource Center (sprc.org)
- Five Ways a Church Can Observe National Suicide Prevention Month – Gordon Conwell
HISPANIC HERITAGE MONTH
SEASON OF CREATION
- Season of Creation Formation Resources (buildfaith.org)
- Creation Justice Resources for Children & Youth | UMC Creation Justice (umcreationjustice.org)
- Season of Creation
ADVENT AND CHRISTMAS
- Advent and Christmas – Online Resource Center – PRC – Practical Resources for Churches
- Christmas Pageant Ideas, Tips and Scripts / https://buildfaith.org/christmas-pageants/?fbclid=IwY2xjawGXYpVleHRuA2FlbQIxMAABHVXwgmiPJh4OU05Fw2s_EGenZwqOr592yhnSQqu_
- Advent Calendars for 2024
- New and Recent Formation Resources for Advent
- Faithful Families for Advent and Christmas / Faithful Families for Advent and Christmas: 100 Ways to Make the Season Sacred: Smith, Traci: 9780827211360: Amazon.com: Books
- Flame: Creative Children’s Ministry: 25 Advent Activities
- 27 Advent and Christmas Service Ideas – Brainstorm List – Re:think Worship
- Waiting for the Light: Advent DevotionalAdvent devotional, Waiting for the Light.
VALENTINE’S DAY/LOVE
- Youth Group Games – Valentine’s Day | Ministry to Youth
Christian Valentine Party Ideas for Church - 33 Valentine’s Day Church Ideas Everyone Will Love
PRESIDENT’S DAY
- Children’s Sermon: Presidents’ Day – A Great Time to Pray – Kids Bible Lessons
- United States Presidents’ Day Holiday Ministry Resources
BLACK HISTORY MONTH
RANDOM ACTS OF KINDNESS
- 10 Ways to Celebrate Random Acts of Kindness Day with Kids
- 20 Random Acts of Kindness for Kids and Families
- 40 Random Acts of Kindness for Youth
NATIVE AMERICAN MONTH
- Discipleship Ministries | Worship Resources for Native American… (umcdiscipleship.org)
- Native/Indigenous American and Alaska Native Heritage Month Resources for 2023 (buildfaith.org)
THANKSGIVING
EASTER
- Easter Sunday School Lesson for Youth – Youth Group Ministry
- EASTER GAME: THE RESURRECTION | Ministry to Youth
- Easter Activities for Kids: Baskets of Fun Ideas Children Will Love
- 5 Family Easter Activities You Can Host At Your Church
- Easter games and activites for kids church, youth group and family events | Youth Group Games | Games, ideas, icebreakers, activities for youth groups, youth ministry and churches.
CELEBRATE DIVERSITY MONTH
AUTISM AWARENESS/ACCEPTANCE
- Autism Awareness Activities for Places of Worship – Autism Faith Network
- 35 Fun Thought-Provoking Autism Awareness Month Activities for Kids – CraftyThinking
ASH WEDNESDAY/LENT
- Ash Wednesday for Families
- Ash Wednesday is an important reminder of why Jesus died on the cross
- Lent in a Bag: An Activity for Church or Home
- Lent Activities for Kids – Ministry To Children
Celebrate Lent In Your Children’s Ministry - 40 Lent Activities for Families (That Are Simple And FUN)
- Discipleship Ministries | Ash Wednesday
YOUTH GROUP LESSONS ON LENT | Ministry to Youth
Lent ideas for your youth ministry
WOMEN’S HISTORY MONTH
- Celebrating 50/40/10 years of women’s ordination – Women of the ELCA
- 10 Ways to Celebrate Women’s History Month | Happied
- Women’s History Month Activities for All Ages (Free Posters)
EVENTS
November 20, 2025
Child Protection Policy Training
TBA
January 2026 – TBA
CYFM Cabinet
Zoom Meeting
January 23-25, 2026
Middle School Retreat
Camp Kinard
“What is a Disciple?”
February 6-7, 2026
CYF Leaders Event
Camp Kinard
Nurturing the Spirituality and Faith of our Children
March 13-15, 2026
Confirmation Retreat (Grades 6-8)
Camp Kinard
April 12, 2026
Heather Roth Johnson (CYF Leaders)
St. Andrew’s, Columbia
May 15-17, 2026
High School Retreat
Coastal Retreat
What is a disciple? (Grades 9-12)
June 11-13, 2026
Leadership Summit
In conjunction with Synod Assembly
What it Means to be a Faithful Leader In conjunction with Synod Assembly. Will include social gatherings, pool party, etc.
June/July 2026
Camp Hugg
July 2026
GraceWorks
CYFM Training
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Contact Information
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Telephone 803-765-0590
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