Children, Youth, and Family Ministry
From the Desk…
Events
News & Resources
2026-2027 Events
Theme: What About…
Dates
October 10-11, 2026 — Elementary Retreat
TBD — Leader Webinar
January 8-10, 2027 — High School Retreat
February 5-7, 2027 — Middle School Retreat
June 12-18, 2027 — Camp Hugg
June 28-July 2, 2027 — Youth and Young Adult Gathering
July 7-10, 2027 — Bridge Building
July 11-16, 2027 — Graceworks
OUR CORE VALUES
How We Believe God Would Have Us Accomplish the Mission And Vision
Leadership Development
- Form youth to be leaders.
- Plan and implement leadership training for youth.
Faith Formation
- Plan and implement events and programs intended to lead children, youth and their families closer to Christ and toward a life of discipleship.
Equip Adult Leaders
- Encourage and support youth leaders through events where leaders can share experiences, successes and resources.
Support
- Develop and maintain communication to inform youth and youth leaders about upcoming events, using email, social media, monthly newsletter.
- Provide publicity for events in a timely manner.
mission statement
What We Believe God Has Called Us To Do
We believe God has called us, in partnership with parents and adult leaders, to cultivate faith formation, leadership development, fellowship and service by, with, and for ELCA children and youth and communities.
Vision Statement
What We Hope God Will Do Through Us
Our vision is for all youth and children in SC to experience God’s love and grace.
Resolution on Child Protection
As adopted by the 2025 Synod Assembly
From the Desk of Deborah Poole
Neurodiversity in the Church
NEURODIVERSITY IN THE CHURCH
Today, one in five families navigates life with neurodivergent members, including those with autism, ADHD dyslexia, dyspraxia, and other neurotypes. Neurodiversity is the recognition that different ways of thinking and behaving are natural and valuable, and that each person is made in God’s image with unique gifts and needs.
Neurodivergent individuals may experience the world differently, with strengths such as creativity, attention to detail, or deep focus, alongside challenges like sensory overload, social communication differences, or executive function needs. Around one in seven people is neurodivergent, and in some clergy and leadership roles, the proportion is even higher.
Scripture and theology can affirm God’s love for diversity, seeing it as a blessing for the whole body of Christ. Different “neurotypes” can enrich community life.
When church activities feel inaccessible, these families are pushed to the margins. Welcoming them fully is a deeply pastoral calling and an essential mission for the church.
What We Can Do:
- Affirmation over correction: Focus on inclusion, as marginalization and discrimination often cause distress.
- Safe and accessible spaces: Make worship and activities welcoming without over-confining neurodivergent people to specific roles
- Awareness and education: Talk about neurodiversity in sermons, small groups, and communications to normalize understanding.
- Adjust expectations: Allow flexibility in participation, such as arriving later, using alternative seating, or responding in preferred ways
- Sensory support: Provide earplugs, fidget tools, whiteboards, and visual aids; use multi-sensory environments
- Clear communication: Share service outlines, use visual schedules, and explain what’s happening during worship
- Variety of activities: Offer both quiet and social events to meet different needs
- Training and support: Equip leaders with knowledge of neurodiversity and resources for pastoral care
Churches can become barrier-free, affirming spaces by normalizing neurodiversity, adapting worship and activities, and training leaders to meet the needs of all. This not only supports neurodivergent people but also deepens the church’s mission to reflect God’s inclusive love.
Resources
Practical ideas, stories, and tools for churches All Resources | Neurodiversity + Church
Strategies for children, young people, and adults Neurodiversity and the church – Church Support Hub
Universal Design for Learning (UDL) Making Space for Every Mind: A Guide to Using Universal Design for Learning in Ministry
Articles from Dr. Niki Elliott – speaker at 2026 Extravaganza Our Founder – Mindful Leaders Project
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ELEMENTARY SCHOOL RETREAT
October 10-11 at Camp Kinard
WHAT ABOUT…?
We will explore what it means to pray, know (Bible), forgive and serve.
Join us as we play, learn and grow together.
There will also be a track for parents! More details to come!
Registration is open!
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The ELCA NETWORK EXTRAVAGANZA is a four-day leadership training event for congregational leaders in children’s, youth, young adult and outdoor ministry. This event is designed specifically with your congregation in mind.
The Event: January 22-25, 2027
The Hilton, Downtown Minneapolis
I am offering a scholarship covering the $379 registration fee for one children’s, youth, or young adult leader in our Synod! (You are responsible for hotel and flight expenses.)
Please reach out if you are interested or know someone else who might be.
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Design the 2027 SC Synod Gathering T-Shirt!
We are officially kicking off the T-Shirt Design Contest2027 ELCA Youth Gathering to find the look that will represent our synod in Minneapolis. We’re looking for something that captures our synod’s faith, energy, and excitement!
Please submit to deborah@scsynod.com by November 1, 2026
This is your chance to showcase the unique gifts God has given you and inspire fellow youth and leaders. So let your creativity shine—we can’t wait to see what you create!
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NEWS FROM THE ELCA YOUTH GATHERING
Important Dates
Oct. 1, 2026 Financial assistance opens
Oct. 21, 2026 Priority registration opens
If you haven’t signed up for gNews, here is the link. It is filled with updates!
Gathering | 2027 ELCA Youth Gathering
Region 9 is hosting a series of Zoom gatherings. They are designed to:
- Share important Youth Gathering information and updates.
- Connect congregations from across Region 9.
- Answer questions and provide helpful guidance as plans come together.
- Encourage and support one another throughout the journey.
Whether you are attending for the first time or have participated for years, these gatherings are a great opportunity to learn, ask questions, and build excitement together.
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Reformation
Reformation Day Activities for Kids: Teaching Christian Heritage
Six Activities to Teach Kids about the Reformation
The Protestant Reformation Lesson Plans | Unit Study – Thinking Kids
Let’s Have a Marty Party – Youth Night Reformation Celebration – youthESource
25 Fun and Engaging Christian Activities for Youth Groups – THE WAY WITH CHRIST
40 Simple, Effective Church Activities to Strengthen Community
Faithful Parenting from Vibrant Faith
Walk alongside families, offering encouragement, guidance, and practical tools that empower parents as the primary faith influencers in their children’s lives.
Faithful Parenting – Vibrant Faith
Faith in an Anxious World: A 4-Week High School Curriculum
from Fuller Youth Institute
Faith in an Anxious World: A 4-Week High School Curriculum – Fuller Youth Institute
Faith at Home Challenge
Created by Lyle Griner, this resource gives your families nine creative, hands-on challenges tied to the topics your students are already learning: Baptism, the Ten Commandments, the Lord’s Prayer, Communion, the Apostles’ Creed, Scripture, and the Church Year.
Faith @ Home Challenges
Organizational structure
newsletters
Resources& Links
ELCA Faith Formation
Growing Young Assessment
Living Our Baptism
Implementing the ELCA Faith Practices in your Ministry Setting
Resources
FACEBOOK GROUPS
- CYFM Resources – SC Synod
- SC Synod Children, Youth, and Family Ministry
- ELCA Youth Ministry Network
- Stuff You Can Use – non-denominational
- Deep Discipleship Youth Group Games
- UMC Intergenerational Ministries
- Big Ideas in Youth Ministry
- ELCA Children and Family Ministries
- Cultivate Faith with PRC
- Ministry Boost
- Birthing Cross+Gen Community
- Progressive Youth Ministry
PODCASTS
- How Your Church Can Meet Families Where They Are
- Youth Ministry Podcast: The FYI on Youth Ministry | Fuller Youth…
CHILDREN’S MINISTRY RESOURCES
- ELCA Children’s Ministry
- Sparkhouse
- Spirit & Truth Publishing (Revised and Narrative Lectionary Curriculum)
- VeggieTales – God Made You Special and He Loves You Very Much
- Bible Made Easy for Kids | Christian Videos | Whats in the Bible
- Unbridled Presence
- StoryBoard | Moving Forward in God’s Story | Page 7
- Best Practices for Talking about Death in Ministry Settings
- 20 Children’s Ministry Games That Are Fun (And Easy!)
- 15 No-Prep Indoor Games for Your Church’s Children’s Ministry | Grow Youth & Kids Ministry Curriculum
- Https://kidactivities.net/games-for-small-groups-of-kids/
- Grief, Loss and God / Children’s Video Series: The Grace of Dogs : Faith+Lead
FAMILY
- Lifelong Faith – Home
- Vibrant Faith – Discover the Whole-Person Ministry Leadership Approach
- Family Faith Formation Toolkit | Family Faith Formation Toolkit | Christian Reformed Church
- Faith Practices at Home / Home Practices
- Book / Faithful Families by Traci Smith (Study Guide – faithfulfamilies4weekstudy)
- Book / Ordinary Blessings for Parents — Meta Herrick Carlson
- Parent Cue
- Parent Night Out: A Ministry of Rest and Belonging
CHILD PROTECTION
- Safe Gatherings / $$ (Synod has partnership with them)
- Home – Darkness to Light
- Safe Gatherings – Mandated Reporting
- Article / Creating a Child Protection Policy for Your Church – Rooted Ministry
- Template for creating policy / Sample-Child-Protection-Policy.pdf
- Model / DE-MDSynodModelChildProtectionPolicy.pdf
- Model / Child-Protection-Policy-SC-reviewed-02-16-2019.pdf
- Model / Child-Safety-Policy-Redacted.pdf
- Model / Child Protection Policy (CPP) – Faith Lutheran Church
- Model / Good Shepherd Lutheran Church – Alexandria, VA | Child Protection
- Church Protection Resources | EPC
- Guidelines-for-Child-Protection-Policy-FINAL-012820.pdf
- Child-Youth-Vulnerable Adult Policy 2020 (GA 2020) (00131876).DOCX
- SafeSanctuaries-Small-Churches-0517.pdf
CONFIRMATION MINISTRY
- Study the Story of the Bible With Free Tools | BibleProject™
- Colaborate: Lutheran Confirmation | Sparkhouse
- Here We Stand Confirmation
- Mentorship / Five keys for effective mentoring
- Re:form | Sparkhouse
YOUTH MINISTRY
- Curriculum / B.D. | Sparkhouse
- Conference / The Confluence |
- Team building through cooking Way Cool Cooking School | Cooking School in Eden Prairie, MN
- The Bible Project / Study the Story of the Bible With Free Tools | BibleProject™
- Curriculum / Echo the Story | Sparkhouse
- Youth Ministry | LeaderTreks Youth Ministry
- Environmental learning Growing Green Hearts
- Peer Ministry / Peer Ministry Leadership – Leadership Training
- Ultimate Camp Resource – Camp Games, Camp Songs, Camp Skits, and more!
- Youth Ministry Great Games – YouTube
- Faith Lens – Faith Lens » Blog Archive – Evangelical Lutheran Church in America
- Ministry to Youth – Youth Group Lessons – Free | Youth Bible Lessons – Free
- Youth ESource – Home – youthESource
- YM360 – YM360 | Youth Ministry 360
- Book / Sustainable Youth Ministry – Ministry Architects
- Youth Group Lessons and Games | Ministry to Youth
- com – Daily Wisdom for Youth Workers.
- Curriculum / Following Jesus – Curriculum – Vibrant Faith
- Home – Small Youth Ministry Resources
- Games & Icebreakers – TheSource4YM
- Free Games – Deep Discipleship(Requires free sign-up)
- 50 No Prep Youth Group Games – Spiritually Hungry
- 10 Great Indoor Youth Group Games For Small Churches
- 50 Fun and Easy Youth Group Games for Indoors (No Prep Necessary)
- What has Gen Alpha’s social media usage looked like? – Springtide Research Institute
- Research on young people’s vocation and sense of purpose – Springtide Research Institute
- Good news about today’s faith-centered Gen Alpha teens
- The-FYI-on-Gen-Alpha-and-Faith.pdf
- Curriculm – Formation Co-Op – Co-Op Resources
YOUNG ADULT MINISTRY
- Young Adult Discussion Guide Series – Fuller Youth Institute
- Identity Calling: Engaging Deeper Questions of Purpose with Young Adults – Connect Journal
- Why young people are choosing quiet churches (and what youth leaders…
CAMPS, MISSION TRIPS & RETREATS
- Local – Columbia / GraceWorks
- NovusWay Ministries I Christian Camps & Retreats In Southeast U.S.
- Appalachia Service Project | Mission Trips in Appalachia
- Passport | Christian Summer Mission Camps For Youth Groups and Children
- Service Learning Camps
- HOME | Thedwelling
- Center for Student Missions / City Service Mission
- Lutheran Outdoor Ministries | Encouraging, Educating, Equipping, and Empowering Camp & Retreat Leadership
- Praying Pelicans Missions / Mission Trips – Domestic & International Group Mission Trips | PPM
- Serve Boldly – GREEN LAKE LUTHERAN MINISTRIES
- YouthWorks | Christ-Centered Youth Mission Trips
BACK TO SCHOOL BLESSINGS AND PRAYERS
- pdf (buildfaith.org) and Blessing Backpacks: Prayer and Resources (buildfaith.org)
- 25 Promising Back To School Prayers For Students & Teachers – Home Faith Family
- Ministry Matters™ | Backpack Blessings
- Blessing of the Backpacks and Back-to-School Worship Liturgy (illustratedministry.com)
- Discipleship Ministries | A Blessing of the Backpacks and the School… (umcdiscipleship.org)
- Backpack Blessing! (saltproject.org)
- For devices / Blessing of the devices (resourceumc.org)
CHOOSING CURRICULUM
- Building Faith’s Top Picks for Youth Ministry Curriculum (buildfaith.org)
- Building Faith’s Top Picks for Children’s Ministry Curriculum (buildfaith.org)
- Why Mixed-Age Sunday School Works Better Than You Think
- Curriculum Evaluation Guide – Ministry Architects
GENERAL INFORMATION
- Building Faith
- Cherish All Children / For Churches | Lutheran Social Service of Minnesota
- Go Weekly / Orange Resources
- ELCAYMNET (Youth Ministry Network) / Martin’s List – Need a membership Members Login
- The Ministry Lab – Supporting vibrant, innovative ministry for our changing world
- ELCAYMNET (youth ministry network) – have to join
- Advocacy for the acceptance, full participation, and liberation of all sexual orientations, gender identities, and gender expressions within the Lutheran Church Home – Reconciling Works
- Fuller Youth Institute / Fuller Youth Institute
- Faith Formation / ELCA FAITH FORMATION – home
- The Innovation Lab / Innovation in Action
- Youth Ministry Consulting for Your Church – Ministry Architects / Synod has a partnership with them. Code is SCCYFM26
- Pulse Survey – Christian Education and Faith Formation / PowerPoint Presentation
- Springtide Research Institute / Research
- DKM REEL RECIPE + B-roll checklist + Sample Calendar
- ELCA FAITH FORMATION – home
- Welcome – PRC – Practical Resources for Churches
EVALUATION
- Evaluate camp and VBS / Event Evaluation Survey – Ministry Architects
CONTINUING EDUCATION
- E-Formation / Lifelong Learning | Virginia Theological Seminary
- ELCAYNET Extravaganza / Extravaganza 2026
- Faith Forward: Reimagine Children’s and Youth Ministry / Faith Forward
- Intergenerate Conference / InterGenerate
- Faith+Lead / Follow God into a Faithful Future: Faith+Lead
- Orange Conference / Orange Conference 2025 | The Family Ministry Event Of The Year | The Art Of We
- Vibrant Faith – Discover the Whole-Person Ministry Leadership Approach
- Lifelong Faith – Home
SUICIDE PREVENTION MONTH
- Hope: A Guide for Faith Leaders to Help Prevent Youth Suicide | National Action Alliance for Suicide Prevention (theactionalliance.org)
- Teaching resources for talking with teens about suicide | PBS NewsHour Classroom
- Children Ages 12 and Younger – Suicide Prevention Resource Center (sprc.org)
- Five Ways a Church Can Observe National Suicide Prevention Month – Gordon Conwell
HISPANIC HERITAGE MONTH
SEASON OF CREATION
- Season of Creation Formation Resources (buildfaith.org)
- Creation Justice Resources for Children & Youth | UMC Creation Justice (umcreationjustice.org)
- Season of Creation
ALL SAINTS DAY
- All Hallows Eve, All Saints and All Souls – Wendy Claire Barrie
- 8 Activities for All Saints’ Day
- 3 Excellent Activities for All Saints Day – Teach by Faith
ADVENT AND CHRISTMAS
- Advent and Christmas – Online Resource Center – PRC – Practical Resources for Churches
- Christmas Pageant Ideas, Tips and Scripts / https://buildfaith.org/christmas-pageants/?fbclid=IwY2xjawGXYpVleHRuA2FlbQIxMAABHVXwgmiPJh4OU05Fw2s_EGenZwqOr592yhnSQqu_
- Advent Calendars for 2024
- New and Recent Formation Resources for Advent
- Faithful Families for Advent and Christmas / Faithful Families for Advent and Christmas: 100 Ways to Make the Season Sacred: Smith, Traci: 9780827211360: Amazon.com: Books
- Flame: Creative Children’s Ministry: 25 Advent Activities
- 27 Advent and Christmas Service Ideas – Brainstorm List – Re:think Worship
- Waiting for the Light: Advent DevotionalAd
- Advent Photo Scavenger Hunt
- Candy cane tag
- 10 Tips for Planning Christmas in Your KidMin – Deeper KidMinv
- Advent & Christmas Page e
- 26 Ideas for Advent (with Sybil MacBeth)
- Advent Activities for Families – Family Faith Builders
- 4 Advent activities you can use in your youth ministry
VALENTINE’S DAY/LOVE
- Youth Group Games – Valentine’s Day | Ministry to Youth
Christian Valentine Party Ideas for Church - 33 Valentine’s Day Church Ideas Everyone Will Love
PRESIDENT’S DAY
- Children’s Sermon: Presidents’ Day – A Great Time to Pray – Kids Bible Lessons
- United States Presidents’ Day Holiday Ministry Resources
BLACK HISTORY MONTH
RANDOM ACTS OF KINDNESS
- 10 Ways to Celebrate Random Acts of Kindness Day with Kids
- 20 Random Acts of Kindness for Kids and Families
- 40 Random Acts of Kindness for Youth
NATIVE AMERICAN MONTH
- Discipleship Ministries | Worship Resources for Native American… (umcdiscipleship.org)
- Native/Indigenous American and Alaska Native Heritage Month Resources for 2023 (buildfaith.org)
THANKSGIVING
- Guide to Organizing Thanksgiving Church Activities (churchministryhelp.com)
- Practicing Gratitude: 8 Ideas for a Thanksgiving Church Service (tithe.ly)
- Thanksgiving Activities for Church and Families (buildfaith.org)
- Gratitude + Generosity = The Full Picture of Thanksgiving – Deeper KidMin
- My Fantastic Fall Gratitude Journal
EASTER
- Easter Sunday School Lesson for Youth – Youth Group Ministry
- EASTER GAME: THE RESURRECTION | Ministry to Youth
- Easter Activities for Kids: Baskets of Fun Ideas Children Will Love
- 5 Family Easter Activities You Can Host At Your Church
- Easter games and activites for kids church, youth group and family events | Youth Group Games | Games, ideas, icebreakers, activities for youth groups, youth ministry and churches.
CELEBRATE DIVERSITY MONTH
AUTISM AWARENESS/ACCEPTANCE
- Autism Awareness Activities for Places of Worship – Autism Faith Network
- 35 Fun Thought-Provoking Autism Awareness Month Activities for Kids – CraftyThinking
ASH WEDNESDAY/LENT
- Ash Wednesday for Families
- Ash Wednesday is an important reminder of why Jesus died on the cross
- Lent in a Bag: An Activity for Church or Home
- Lent Activities for Kids – Ministry To Children
Celebrate Lent In Your Children’s Ministry - 40 Lent Activities for Families (That Are Simple And FUN)
- Discipleship Ministries | Ash Wednesday
YOUTH GROUP LESSONS ON LENT | Ministry to Youth
Lent ideas for your youth ministry
PENTECOST
- Pentecost in a box | ResourceUMC
- Building Faith Pentecost 2026 Toolkit
- The Ultimate Pentecost Sunday School Lesson for Kids
- Nine things to do with your kids on Pentecost – Teaching Catholic Kids
- Easy Pentecost (Acts 2) Lessons for At-Home and In-Church | Rotation.org
- Youth Group Lessons on Pentecost | Ministry to Youth
WOMEN’S HISTORY MONTH
- Celebrating 50/40/10 years of women’s ordination – Women of the ELCA
- 10 Ways to Celebrate Women’s History Month | Happied
- Women’s History Month Activities for All Ages (Free Posters)
SUMMER
Flat Jesus Around Town / Free Resources | Sparkhouse
CYFM Training
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