Children, Youth, and Family Ministry
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OUR CORE VALUES
How We Believe God Would Have Us Accomplish the Mission And Vision
Leadership Development
- Form youth to be leaders.
- Plan and implement leadership training for youth.
Faith Formation
- Plan and implement events and programs intended to lead children, youth and their families closer to Christ and toward a life of discipleship.
Equip Adult Leaders
- Encourage and support youth leaders through events where leaders can share experiences, successes and resources.
Support
- Develop and maintain communication to inform youth and youth leaders about upcoming events, using email, social media, monthly newsletter.
- Provide publicity for events in a timely manner.
mission statement
What We Believe God Has Called Us To Do
We believe God has called us, in partnership with parents and adult leaders, to cultivate faith formation, leadership development, fellowship and service by, with, and for ELCA children and youth and communities.
Vision Statement
What We Hope God Will Do Through Us
Our vision is for all youth and children in SC to experience God’s love and grace.
Resolution on Child Protection
As adopted by the 2025 Synod Assembly
From the Desk of Deborah Poole

Tips for Developing a Youth Ministry
Tips for Developing a Youth Ministry
Establishing a Strong Foundation:
- Clear Vision and Purpose:
- Define your ministry’s goals: Faith growth, service, community, or a combination.
- What impact do you want to have on young lives?
- Understanding Your Audience:
- Know your youth: Interests, needs, and spiritual questions.
- Solicit direct feedback from teens; don’t rely solely on adults.
- Recognize their sacred worth and legitimate spiritual needs.
- Shake off stereotypes; see them as active participants, not passive recipients.
- Building Relationships:
- Prioritize relationships over programs.
- Be present, listen, and show genuine care.
- Foster a sense of belonging and inclusivity.
- Combat cliquishness and promote acceptance.
- Partnering with Parents:
- Acknowledge parental influence as crucial.
- Equip parents to nurture their children’s faith.
- Offer resources for home faith practices and discussions.
- Provide support groups and address family concerns.
- Consider intergenerational learning.
- Teach parents the importance of “hanging out” with their children.
II. Creating Engaging and Meaningful Experiences:
- Creative and Relevant Programming:
- Be creative and innovative; there are no rigid rules.
- Use current events, popular culture (music, movies), and relevant topics.
- Integrate experience-centered learning and hands-on activities.
- Balance recreation, study, devotion, and fellowship.
- Schedule large events, that are easy for young people to bring friends to.
- “Get Real” Christian Education:
- Address real-life questions and doubts honestly.
- Emphasize discussion and conversation.
- Communicate core faith principles clearly and often.
- Integrate “service learning” for practical discipleship.
- Provide training in spiritual faith practices.
- Meaningful Worship:
- Give youth visible and meaningful roles in worship.
- Make worship experience-based and relevant to their lives.
- Encourage youth to write their own liturgies and prayers.
- Allow youth to find their own ways to worship God.
- Youth Leadership and Empowerment:
- Encourage and develop youth leadership.
- Give them real responsibilities and decision-making roles.
- Start a youth-led worship service.
III. Ensuring a Safe and Supportive Environment:
- Effective Adult Leadership:
- Recruit knowledgeable, committed, and spiritually mature leaders.
- Provide training for leaders, focusing on listening and discussion skills.
- Perform thorough background checks and implement child protection policies.
- Invest in the youth ministry through budget and staffing.
- Consistent Structure and Boundaries:
- Maintain consistent meeting times and locations.
- Establish clear behavioral boundaries and discipline policies.
- Divide junior high and senior high groups when possible.
- Kids need and value stability, routines, and rituals.
- The Power of Prayer:
- Pray for your youth ministry and the young people you serve.
- Seek the guidance of the Holy Spirit.
Key Takeaways:
- Youth ministry is about people, not just programs.
- Authenticity and relevance are essential for connecting with young people.
- Empowering youth to lead and participate actively fosters ownership and growth.
- Partnering with parents creates a unified and supportive environment.
- Constant prayer and seeking God’s guidance is necessary.
Resources
Small Youth Ministry
At Small Youth Ministry, we’re dedicated to empowering leaders of small youth groups with carefully crafted, completely free resources compiled just for you. We understand the unique challenges you face, and we’re here to provide the support you need to thrive.
Home – Small Youth Ministry Resources
Code: SCCYFM25
Faith Lens
Faith Lens is a lectionary-based Bible study series posted weekly to be used individually and/or in small groups for your ministry context. Faith Lens is on hiatus over the summer months. Click here to review the archives and read the latest blog posts!
Ministry Leadership Center
Formerly Known as Center for Youth Ministry Training (CYMT)
It is a source for articles and free downloads.
Subscribe for the latest and greatest!
Subscription Center – Ministry Leadership Center
Cherish All Children
From Lutheran Social Services of Minnesota, this site offers resources education, tools and actions to keep children safe from the dangers of exploitation and trafficking.

The Springtide Research Institute is excited to invite you to register for their FREE webinar:
Journey to What’s Working: How Youth Ministries Effectively Connect with Young People!
When: Thursday, May 15, 2025, at 11:00 AM PT / 1:00 PM CT / 2:00 PM ET
This 75-minute webinar and Q&A session will equip you with practical knowledge to better serve the youth you work with.
During the webinar, you’ll discover:
- Young people’s eagerness for connection and spiritual growth, and how adults hold the key to fostering these opportunities
- What youth truly value in a faith community
- What leaders prioritize when building meaningful relationships with young people
- The essential elements of community that encourage youth to return
- How to support and guide young people in your care
Pre-Registration is Required – Click here
Journey to Discover What’s Working – Springtide Research Institute
Social Message on Child Protection
On March 21, 2025, the ELCA released a draft social message on child protection and maltreatment, responding to a request from the 2022 Churchwide Assembly. Churchwide staff from Youth Ministry and Theological Ethics invite you to attend online hearings for children, youth, and family ministers to share feedback on the draft message.
Hearings will be held on:
– Thursday, May 15, 7:30-9:00 pm Eastern
– Tuesday, May 20, 12-1:30 pm Eastern
To Register: https://forms.office.com/r/ThGJkYhtR4](https://forms.office.com/r/ThGJkYhtR4…) to share comments, affirmations, and suggestions for improvement. All serving in children, youth, and family ministry, whether lay, rostered, paid, or volunteer, are welcome!
Social Message can be found here: [https://www.elca.org/…/current-social…/child-protection](https://www.elca.org/…/current…/child-protection…)
Has your church been asking, “Where did all the teenagers go?” You’re not alone.
What if, rather than going it alone, churches teamed up to create something better together? Join Building a Thriving, Sustainable Youth Ministry Cohort—a free, four-month online cohort focused on collaboration, not competition.
Space is limited—sign up and discover what’s possible when we work together!
Ten x 10
1,000,000 young people are leaving the Christian faith every year. TENx10 launched a collaborative movement of diverse Christian leaders, organizations, denominations and influencers that are committed to making faith matter more for 10 million young people over the next 10 years. TEN×10 | Making faith matter more.
Pentecost
Pentecost: Why and How to Celebrate
It’s Pentecost, Let’s Party! 4 Ways to Celebrate at Church
Ministry Matters™ | Make a Big Deal About Pentecost!
Ideas to celebrate pentecost in the church
Graduation
21 Unique Ways To Honor Graduates In Your Small Church – Small Church Ministry
Practical Ideas for a Graduate Recognition Service | Lifeway
Church Graduation Program Ideas: 5 Ways to Celebrate Grads
Meaningful Gifts for Various Occasions

CYFM CABINET MEETING
June 21, 10am-2pm
Synod Office
Our synod’s CYF Ministry includes many ways in which youth are involved in leadership.
To suggest names, please contact me – deborah@scsynod.com
For an application: Youth Ministry Task Force Application – Google Forms
CAMP HUGG
June 29-July 3
Camp Kinard
Here’s the link to the Camp HUGG staff application form for 2025.
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdKQ3SULffGAAZUJ9iOz6VTNm2igo9tT9jsDa0kfYQhCGWClg/viewform
ZOO PASSES NEEDED!
Camp HUGG needs your help again this year to collect Riverbanks Zoo Passes to use during our special needs camp this summer. We have 20 campers (and 25 staff) who really enjoy the opportunity to visit the zoo together! If you are a Riverbanks Zoo member and have extra guest passes, please consider donating them to Camp HUGG to use. We understand from zoo management that they are not issuing guest passes on paper anymore unless requested. If you have paper guest passes, you can mail them or drop them off at the synod office. If not, you can call the zoo and request they mail you your guest passes. When you receive them, you can mail them to the synod office (Camp HUGG, c/o SC Synod, 1003 Richland Street, Columbia, SC 29201). Thanks!
GRACEWORKS
July 13-18
What is GraceWorks? GraceWorks is a local servant camp for Midlands Youth who are rising 6th graders through recently graduated 12th graders. GraceWorks develops servant leaders as these youth serve various agencies around the Columbia area. Most of these agencies serve vulnerable children or adults. In addition to doing physical labor like painting, cleaning, yardwork, and organizing, youth also learn about the ministry of these agencies and often have opportunities to interact with those they are serving.
What does it cost: This year’s cost will be $50* per youth, this covers supplies, snacks, and our recreation day for all our participants. *Cost should never be a deciding factor for any youth. If the cost is a barrier please reach out to Walt Hampton at Zion for scholarship information.
Where is GraceWorks this year? Ebenezer Lutheran Church, 1301 Richland Street, Columbia, 29201. This will be our home base, most of our service experiences will involve traveling offsite via bus or by foot.
When is GraceWorks this year? This year GraceWorks begins Sunday July 13th with a meal and worship. We will gather at Ebenezer from 5:00-7:00pm to get to know each other, learn about our service agencies for the week, and worship together. Monday through Friday, July 14th-18th, we will gather between 8:00 and 8:15am to start our day and will be finished and ready for pickup at 5:00pm. Your congregation youth leader will make sure you arrive and depart on time.
Registration is now live!
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfWsfkmrBmWjz0TJ41UQ_rsJwKFXuUciCqL8FywIbjuFdSRcg/viewform?usp=sf_link
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Resources& Links
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Growing Young Assessment
Living Our Baptism
Implementing the ELCA Faith Practices in your Ministry Setting

Resources
FACEBOOK GROUPS
- CYFM Resources – SC Synod
- SC Synod Children, Youth, and Family Ministry
- ELCA Youth Ministry Network
- Stuff You Can Use – non-denominational
- Deep Discipleship Youth Group Games
- UMC Intergenerational Ministries
- Big Ideas in Youth Ministry
- ELCA Children and Family Ministries
- Cultivate Faith with PRC
- Ministry Boost
- Birthing Cross+Gen Community
- Progressive Youth Ministry
CHILDREN’S MINISTRY RESOURCES
- ELCA Children’s Ministry
- Sparkhouse
- Spirit & Truth Publishing (Revised and Narrative Lectionary Curriculum)
- VeggieTales – God Made You Special and He Loves You Very Much
- Bible Made Easy for Kids | Christian Videos | Whats in the Bible
FAMILY
- Lifelong Faith – Home
- Vibrant Faith – Discover the Whole-Person Ministry Leadership Approach
- Family Faith Formation Toolkit | Family Faith Formation Toolkit | Christian Reformed Church
- Faith Practices at Home / Home Practices
- Book / Faithful Families by Traci Smith (Study Guide – faithfulfamilies4weekstudy)
- Book / Ordinary Blessings for Parents — Meta Herrick Carlson
- Parent Cue
CHILD PROTECTION
- Safe Gatherings / $$ (Synod has partnership with them)
- Home – Darkness to Light
- Safe Gatherings – Mandated Reporting
- Article / Creating a Child Protection Policy for Your Church – Rooted Ministry
- Template for creating policy / Sample-Child-Protection-Policy.pdf
- Model / DE-MDSynodModelChildProtectionPolicy.pdf
- Model / Child-Protection-Policy-SC-reviewed-02-16-2019.pdf
- Model / Child-Safety-Policy-Redacted.pdf
- Model / Child Protection Policy (CPP) – Faith Lutheran Church
- Model / Good Shepherd Lutheran Church – Alexandria, VA | Child Protection
- Church Protection Resources | EPC
- Guidelines-for-Child-Protection-Policy-FINAL-012820.pdf
- Child-Youth-Vulnerable Adult Policy 2020 (GA 2020) (00131876).DOCX
- SafeSanctuaries-Small-Churches-0517.pdf
CONFIRMATION MINISTRY
- Study the Story of the Bible With Free Tools | BibleProject™
- Colaborate: Lutheran Confirmation | Sparkhouse
- Here We Stand Confirmation
- Mentorship / Five keys for effective mentoring
- Re:form | Sparkhouse
YOUTH MINISTRY
- Curriculum / T.B.D. | Sparkhouse
- Conference / The Confluence |
- Team building through cooking Way Cool Cooking School | Cooking School in Eden Prairie, MN
- The Bible Project / Study the Story of the Bible With Free Tools | BibleProject™
- Curriculum / Echo the Story | Sparkhouse
- Youth Ministry | LeaderTreks Youth Ministry
- Environmental learning Growing Green Hearts
- Peer Ministry / Peer Ministry Leadership – Leadership Training
- Ultimate Camp Resource – Camp Games, Camp Songs, Camp Skits, and more!
- Youth Ministry Great Games – YouTube
- Faith Lens – Faith Lens » Blog Archive – Evangelical Lutheran Church in America
- Ministry to Youth – Youth Group Lessons – Free | Youth Bible Lessons – Free
- Youth ESource – Home – youthESource
- YM360 – YM360 | Youth Ministry 360
- Book / Sustainable Youth Ministry – Ministry Architects
- Youth Group Lessons and Games | Ministry to Youth
- YouthMinistry.com – Daily Wisdom for Youth Workers.
CAMPS, MISSION TRIPS & RETREATS
- Local – Columbia / GraceWorks
- NovusWay Ministries I Christian Camps & Retreats In Southeast U.S.
- Appalachia Service Project | Mission Trips in Appalachia
- Passport | Christian Summer Mission Camps For Youth Groups and Children
- Service Learning Camps
- HOME | Thedwelling
- Center for Student Missions / City Service Mission
- Lutheran Outdoor Ministries | Encouraging, Educating, Equipping, and Empowering Camp & Retreat Leadership
- Praying Pelicans Missions / Mission Trips – Domestic & International Group Mission Trips | PPM
- Serve Boldly – GREEN LAKE LUTHERAN MINISTRIES
- YouthWorks | Christ-Centered Youth Mission Trips
BACK TO SCHOOL BLESSINGS AND PRAYERS
- Back_to_School_Blessings_and_Prayers.pdf (buildfaith.org) and Blessing Backpacks: Prayer and Resources (buildfaith.org)
- 25 Promising Back To School Prayers For Students & Teachers – Home Faith Family
- Ministry Matters™ | Backpack Blessings
- Blessing of the Backpacks and Back-to-School Worship Liturgy (illustratedministry.com)
- Discipleship Ministries | A Blessing of the Backpacks and the School… (umcdiscipleship.org)
- Backpack Blessing! (saltproject.org)
- For devices / Blessing of the devices (resourceumc.org)
CHOOSING CURRICULUM
- Building Faith’s Top Picks for Youth Ministry Curriculum (buildfaith.org)
- Building Faith’s Top Picks for Children’s Ministry Curriculum (buildfaith.org)
GENERAL INFORMATION
- Building Faith
- Cherish All Children / For Churches | Lutheran Social Service of Minnesota
- Go Weekly / Orange Resources
- ELCAYMNET (Youth Ministry Network) / Martin’s List – Need a membership Members Login
- The Ministry Lab – Supporting vibrant, innovative ministry for our changing world
- ELCAYMNET (youth ministry network) – have to join
- Advocacy for the acceptance, full participation, and liberation of all sexual orientations, gender identities, and gender expressions within the Lutheran Church Home – Reconciling Works
- Fuller Youth Institute / Fuller Youth Institute
- Faith Formation / ELCA FAITH FORMATION – home
- The Innovation Lab / Innovation in Action
- Youth Ministry Consulting for Your Church – Ministry Architects / Synod has a partnership with them. Code is SCCYFM25
- Springtide Research Institute / Interesting information
CONTINUING EDUCATION
- E-Formation / Lifelong Learning | Virginia Theological Seminary
- ELCAYNET Extravaganza / Extravaganza 2026
- Faith Forward: Reimagine Children’s and Youth Ministry / Faith Forward
- Intergenerate Conference / InterGenerate
- Faith+Lead / Follow God into a Faithful Future: Faith+Lead
- Orange Conference / Orange Conference 2025 | The Family Ministry Event Of The Year | The Art Of We
- Vibrant Faith – Discover the Whole-Person Ministry Leadership Approach
- Lifelong Faith – Home
SUICIDE PREVENTION MONTH
- Hope: A Guide for Faith Leaders to Help Prevent Youth Suicide | National Action Alliance for Suicide Prevention (theactionalliance.org)
- Teaching resources for talking with teens about suicide | PBS NewsHour Classroom
- Children Ages 12 and Younger – Suicide Prevention Resource Center (sprc.org)
- Five Ways a Church Can Observe National Suicide Prevention Month – Gordon Conwell
HISPANIC HERITAGE MONTH
SEASON OF CREATION
- Season of Creation Formation Resources (buildfaith.org)
- Creation Justice Resources for Children & Youth | UMC Creation Justice (umcreationjustice.org)
- Season of Creation
ADVENT AND CHRISTMAS
- Advent and Christmas – Online Resource Center – PRC – Practical Resources for Churches
- Christmas Pageant Ideas, Tips and Scripts / https://buildfaith.org/christmas-pageants/?fbclid=IwY2xjawGXYpVleHRuA2FlbQIxMAABHVXwgmiPJh4OU05Fw2s_EGenZwqOr592yhnSQqu_
- Advent Calendars for 2024
- New and Recent Formation Resources for Advent
- Faithful Families for Advent and Christmas / Faithful Families for Advent and Christmas: 100 Ways to Make the Season Sacred: Smith, Traci: 9780827211360: Amazon.com: Books
- Flame: Creative Children’s Ministry: 25 Advent Activities
- 27 Advent and Christmas Service Ideas – Brainstorm List – Re:think Worship
- Waiting for the Light: Advent DevotionalAdvent devotional, Waiting for the Light.
VALENTINE’S DAY/LOVE
- Youth Group Games – Valentine’s Day | Ministry to Youth
Christian Valentine Party Ideas for Church - 33 Valentine’s Day Church Ideas Everyone Will Love
PRESIDENT’S DAY
- Children’s Sermon: Presidents’ Day – A Great Time to Pray – Kids Bible Lessons
- United States Presidents’ Day Holiday Ministry Resources
BLACK HISTORY MONTH
RANDOM ACTS OF KINDNESS
- 10 Ways to Celebrate Random Acts of Kindness Day with Kids
- 20 Random Acts of Kindness for Kids and Families
- 40 Random Acts of Kindness for Youth
NATIVE AMERICAN MONTH
- Discipleship Ministries | Worship Resources for Native American… (umcdiscipleship.org)
- Native/Indigenous American and Alaska Native Heritage Month Resources for 2023 (buildfaith.org)
THANKSGIVING
EASTER
- Easter Sunday School Lesson for Youth – Youth Group Ministry
- EASTER GAME: THE RESURRECTION | Ministry to Youth
- Easter Activities for Kids: Baskets of Fun Ideas Children Will Love
- 5 Family Easter Activities You Can Host At Your Church
- Easter games and activites for kids church, youth group and family events | Youth Group Games | Games, ideas, icebreakers, activities for youth groups, youth ministry and churches.
CELEBRATE DIVERSITY MONTH
AUTISM AWARENESS/ACCEPTANCE
- Autism Awareness Activities for Places of Worship – Autism Faith Network
- 35 Fun Thought-Provoking Autism Awareness Month Activities for Kids – CraftyThinking
ASH WEDNESDAY/LENT
- Ash Wednesday for Families
- Ash Wednesday is an important reminder of why Jesus died on the cross
- Lent in a Bag: An Activity for Church or Home
- Lent Activities for Kids – Ministry To Children
Celebrate Lent In Your Children’s Ministry - 40 Lent Activities for Families (That Are Simple And FUN)
- Discipleship Ministries | Ash Wednesday
YOUTH GROUP LESSONS ON LENT | Ministry to Youth
Lent ideas for your youth ministry
WOMEN’S HISTORY MONTH
- Celebrating 50/40/10 years of women’s ordination – Women of the ELCA
- 10 Ways to Celebrate Women’s History Month | Happied
- Women’s History Month Activities for All Ages (Free Posters)
EVENTS
October 4-5, 2025
Let’s Glow for God!
Elementary Retreat (Grades 1-5)
October 4-5 @ Camp Kinard
Children, Youth, and Family Ministry Scholarships
We don’t want a lack of funds to keep you from attending retreats and conferences. The amount of scholarship funds available to each applicant varies depending upon availability of fund as we strive to be good stewards of our financial resources. All information is confidential, and we will make every effort to fulfill your request. Please contact Deacon Deborah (deborah@scsynod.com) for more information.
October 19, 2025
Marty Party
Zion, Lexington
November 1, 2025
Mental Health Summit (Synod-wide)
Mt. Hermon, West Columbia
November 20, 2025
Child Protection Policy Training
TBA
January 2026 – TBA
CYFM Cabinet
Zoom Meeting
January 23-25, 2026
Middle School Retreat
Camp Kinard
“What is a Disciple?”
February 6-7, 2026
CYF Leaders Event
Camp Kinard
Nurturing the Spirituality and Faith of our Children
March 13-15, 2026
Confirmation Retreat (Grades 6-8)
Camp Kinard
April 12, 2026
Heather Roth Johnson (CYF Leaders)
St. Andrew’s, Columbia
May 15-17, 2026
High School Retreat
Coastal Retreat
What is a disciple? (Grades 9-12)
June 11-13, 2026
Leadership Summit
In conjunction with Synod Assembly
What it Means to be a Faithful Leader In conjunction with Synod Assembly. Will include social gatherings, pool party, etc.
June/July 2026
Camp Hugg
July 2026
GraceWorks
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Contact Information
ELCA South Carolina Synod
1003 Richland Street
Columbia, SC 29201
Telephone 803-765-0590
Fax 803-252-5558
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